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What a great adventure we have had these last few months.  In short, (because all 3 of you that follow my blog already know all this:) Jason got a job for ConAgra in Boise and we moved to Idaho in September.  We showed up and surprised my folks, stayed with them for a few weeks while we settled on a home and closed on it, and then we got moved in.  We are so happy to be here.  We live in a great little community called Hidden Springs, in the foothills of Boise and our home here is as beautiful as our mountain views.  Really, we are so happy.  Jason's job is going well and the kids are starting to settle in at their new schools and in the ward here.  We do miss Wisconsin, but it is so wonderful to be near family again.  And we do just love Idaho! 

So, that being said... Many of you who know me well wiil be surprised to hear me say I am SO SICK OF MOVING and I NEVER WANT TO MOVE AGAIN!!!  I really have enjoyed living so many places and seeing so many things, but it is just so much work every time we have to move.  Especially now that the kids are older and moving is never easy for them.  I counted the homes we've bought since we've been married.  We have purchased 7 homes in the short 16 years that we've been married.  This move brought Kiley's "schools attended" count to 10 and Will and James are at 8 each.  That is just way too many times to have to make new friends and start over.  So we have committed to staying here for the next 6 years (at least).  That will get the three oldest kids through High School, but after that, we will see how we are feeling and maybe I will be up for some more adventures by then... 

I will try to take some new pictures.  Tomorrow Tracy and Russ and (I think) my parents are coming over for dinner and trick-or-treating, so we will take pictures then and post some in a few days.  We are still unpacking boxes like crazy and trying to get settled, but we feel so blessed to be here.  Maybe once things settle down a bit, I will be better about blogging more often...maybe...

Some thoughts

First, some thoughts about Lizzy...  Thank you friends for your kind words.  I have thought a lot about Lizzy these last few months.  Her birthday came and went.  We had plans and I missed her being here to carry them out with me.  During the time I knew Lizzy, I always thought that I was helping her and trying to make myself available to be a friend to her.  She was interesting and unique and I enjoyed my time with her, but I always thought that I was the one serving her.  It is funny how now my perspective has changed and I see that she was actually the one serving me the whole time.  I needed her.  What I gave Lizzy pales in comparison to what I gained from her. 

I don't want to sound too corny, but since Lizzy has passed away, I have felt her spirit with me at times.  I feel stronger and more happy because of the time I spent with her and the things she taught me.  She has given me strength and made me realize how very blessed I am.  Physically, Spiritually, Economically, etc.  It occured to me in a very real way that with these blessings comes a great responsibility to do good.  We who are so blessed, what a greater responsibility we have to bless others.  Lizzy practiced this priciple.  It took so much energy and work for her to even get out of bed each day, yet she did.  Because of her condition, she could not do much physically.  Her hands did not work well, yet she painfully wrote letters.  Tons of letters to friends and family.  While cleaning out her apartment I found some paperwork showing that she had been financially providing for a child in a third world country who needed food and clothing.  Lizzy had very little money.  Only the money she recieved from the government.  Still, she sacrificed so she could help this child.  One of Lizzy's last acts was to donate her gorgeous, long hair to locks of Love.  She could do so little, but she did what she could.  She was very creative in looking for ways to serve and lighten the loads of others. 

Still, a couple months after her death, I see her example and she teaches me.  I am so glad that I met her and feel like she has had such a significant impact on my life and my future. 

Other news - our summer was wonderful!  We spent a week up at the company resort in Northern Wisconsin.  The kids learned to water skii there and did archery, tubing, horse-back riding, canoeing, fishing, boating, swimming, scavenger hunts, made pinata's, tie dyed t-shirts, did some other crafts, and just had a wonderful and fun week.  They met some great friends there too.  I saw Kiley very little the whole week.  She was always off with her friends and flirting with boys. 

Then we also got to go out west and spend a couple weeks with family.  Kiley went to EFY in Provo and she loved it.  We went to a Workman family reunion in Utah and spent time in Rupert and Boise with our families as well.  It was so great to be with family and see everyone.  We really miss everyone and it is hard to be so far away. 

 Kate got to be a flower girl for the wedding of a friend this summer.  She had a beautiful dress and danced with her dad at the reception afterward.

Kate and Lucas (the ring bearer was only 3 years old.  When they were walking down the aisle,

 Kate was scattering the rose petals out in front of them.  Lucas was confused and looked at her and loudly said, "What are you doing?"  "Why are you doing that?"  It was so funny.  I have it on video.  Very cute!

Grandma and Grandpa Wallace with the four youngest grandchildren.

Cameron, Brook and Bek

Will and James pose in the museum before our tour of the old Idaho Jail...

Nothing but trouble

Now the kids are back in school and doing well.  It seems they all got great teachers and they are very happy and getting settled.  I am enjoying a little time each day with my little Bekah.  She is a walker now and she gets around pretty good.  I love watching her learn.  She is starting to say a few words and really imitates what she hears us say.  She is such a source of happiness and joy for all of us.  We feel so blessed to have her in our lives. 

Life Goes On...

Hello, Family and Friends. What a summer it has been so far. Funny how certain events can change us so dramatically. I lost a very good friend a few weeks ago. Lizzy had cerebral Palsy. She was only 28 years old and she lived a short, but significant life. I met Lizzy through church. She is a convert to the church. She was taken from her parents at age 10 and put in foster care. She endured so many hardships in her life. She and I became fast friends when I moved back to Wisconsin. She taught me about service and endurance and so much about gratitude.





Three weeks ago, Lizzy came to our house for dinner and a priesthood blessing prior to going into surgery the next morning. Lizzy was a very private person and did not want anyone in her ward to know about the surgery. No one knew about it, other than me. I was busy with so many things that Monday, but stopped in to check on Lizzy after her surgery on Monday evening. She was happy, comfortable and tearful. Kate and Bekah were with me. Lizzy kept asking for hugs and wanted to hold Bekah. She spoke of peace and that she was not worried for this surgery. She felt happy. I was not worried about her at all. She seemed to be doing so well. The doctor came in and talked with her and everything had gone so well. I left to go to baseball and thought about her a lot that night. Lizzy was expected to be released the following morning. I was planning to check in with her that morning and see if she needed a ride or anything. I recieved a phone call from the hospital at 6:27 am saying that Lizzy was unresponsive. I jumped into the car and headed to the hospital. Jason was with me, and we ran out of gas on the way. While driving, I called the hospital for an update and got the news that she had passed away. I was devastated and so shaken up about it. I still get teary when I think of it.


Lizzy had listed me as her next of kin and her power of attorney. She had a "Do not resuscitate" bracelet on and so they could not do too much to try to bring her back. I got to the hospital, and said my goodbye's to her. The nurse came in to clean up her body a little and she told me that she had sat with Lizzy the night before, and the two of them spoke of God and his goodness and mercy. That is so Lizzy! The nurse checked her vitals at 5:30 am, and she was doing well, the doctor came in a little after six and she was unresponsive at that time.


I ordered an autopsy and nothing could be discovered. Lizzy's time on earth was just over. I knew it. I just have had a really hard time saying goodbye. I think of her everywhere I go. Her birthday was coming up and she wanted to come over for a family night and spend her birthday with us. I was planning on a trip to the zoo with Lizzy. She has not attended the zoo since she was a child, about 6 or 7 years old. She was so looking forward to going.


Hmm... To make a long story short, we tried to contact her family and friends and foster family. Most of them live out in Washington State. The family demanded cremation. I felt Lizzy would not have wanted to be cremated, but I discovered that since Lizzy did not have a will, my power to make that call did not stand up legally. Her family got their wish and she was cremated and sent home to Washington State. Dealing with that news of cremation was really hard for me to come to terms with also. I felt like Lizzy did not want her family making these calls, and I was helpless to do anything. My husband and my Stake President (Who was Lizzy's other closest friend) helped me to come to peace with this. We cleaned out her apartment and her ward did a small memorial service that I spoke at. We were supposed to be on vacation, but we went late so we could make the service. I am so happy we went. Mostly nonmembers showed up and it was a very touching and lovely service. Her foster family came all the way here and I was so honored to meet Kathy, her foster mom. Lizzy told me that Kathy was the first person that ever made her feel loved.


Moving forward after this event has been difficult. I feel more nervous and scared than normal. I had a really hard time sending Will to scout camp just afterward. I just want to hold everyone close and watch over them carefully. I know that Lizzy is in a better place. I know she is relieved of the burdens she carried all her life. She no longer has to drag her feet. She is free and happy. I have felt a lot of comfort as I grieve. I am so greatful for my friendship with Lizzy. I love her dearly and look forward to the day when we will meet again.

Kate's Piano number

Hi all. Kate has started taking piano this year. She really enjoys it and actually practices her songs without being reminded most of the time. Today she volunteered to play some prelude music at her school's music performance. Here is a video of her song. She did great.

Spring Break

Here are some pictures of our wonderful trip last month. We had a great time and made so many memories with the children and Jason's parents. I have always wanted to take my kids on a big trip like this. I am so grateful that we had this opportunity. It was an experience we will always treasure...

Jason, Will and James

Jason with his Dad

Jason with Will

I love this picture, because if you look close, there is a plant just above Jasons head and it looks like he has crazy hair.

Me and my girls. Check out the concerned look on Bekah's face.

Me and Bek

Jason, Kerri and Bekah in Mexico

Kiley and Kate at the top of the main temple in Coba, Mexico

Kiley and Kate in Tulum, Mexico

Kiley kissing a Dolphin in Grand Cayman

Katie "dancing" with the dolphin

Will got a kiss too...

So did Bekah, but she did not know what to think of this. After he kissed her, she looked at him and started crying. So cute!

Learning to Crawl

Bekah is learning to crawl. It is so much fun to watch her try to get her body to go in the direction she wants to head. I think this whole learning to move process is so interesting to watch. Kids are so smart!

More Grease

My mom requested a few more pictures of the play. Here they are...

James' opening monologue. (Class Reunion)

Patty and T Birds - Aren't these sets amazing for a middle school play. I was so impressed.

"Grease Lightning" - Ironically enough, the guy who played Kenickie (Center guy in photo) got suspended from school two weeks before opening night, for punching a kid in the face. They were not going to let him participate in the play, but they ended up working it out somehow. He did a great job. All those real life experiences payed off, I guess...

Cha-Cha, Eugene, Mrs. Lynch, and Patty take a bow.

" We Go Together"

Danny turns Jock

Cast backstage.

Eugene and a couple of boys (I don't know what parts they played. They were helping with Vince Fontaine's band or something.)

Some of the cast with Mr. DeBoth, the Director

Another shot of the cast at the cast party...